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Miriam Margolyes admits she felt ‘deeply ashamed’ for hitting paralysed mum

Miriam appeared on BBC's Imagine

Miriam Margolyes has admitted feeling “deeply ashamed” when she once hit her mum when she was paralysed.

The 80-year-old opened up about the incident during an appearance on BBC’s Imagine.

Miriam spoke about caring for her mum Ruth, who died in 1974 after her health declined following a stroke.

Miriam Margolyes speaking on BBC's Imagine
TV star Miriam admitted she once hit her mother (Credit: BBC)

Miriam Margolyes on BBC

The star told presenter Alan Yentob that she had left the moment out of her autobiography, which was published last year.

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She said: “I didn’t mention something that I should have mentioned. And that was that I hit my mother when she was paralysed.

“Anybody who’s been a carer will know how frustrating and difficult it is and I let that happen, I’m deeply ashamed of it.”

Miriam Margolyes speaking on BBC's Imagine
Miriam Margolyes admitted feeling “deeply ashamed” as she appeared on the BBC show last night (Credit: BBC)

Becoming emotional, Miriam added: “The thing that really gets to me is that my mother forgave me.

“I hit her when she was paralysed and she forgave me.”

Miriam previously opened up about her mother’s stroke in her book, This Much is True.

She said she always believed that her coming out as lesbian caused her mother’s stroke.

She wrote: “I always believed that my coming out in some way caused it.

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“I had caused the person I loved most in the world a pain she could not bear.

“It was a horrendous time and I was very unhappy. I knew I couldn’t change what I was; I should not have told them.”

The thing that really gets to me is that my mother forgave me.

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She also said: “She and my father insisted I come into the drawing room and swear on the Torah never to have relations with a woman again.

“I did as they asked, but I broke my promise.”

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Rebecca Carter
Associate Editor (News)

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